It is fairly easy to plan a bachelorette party for a friend who’s all into strippers, a lot of booze, loud music and maybe even a few kisses-in-a-cheek from a stranger. But have you ever experienced organizing a bachelorette party for a shy, introvert friend who’s impossible to please, yet you still love her like crazy and you want to make her last weekend as a single gal’ the best one in her entire life? Now, that’s a tough job! But not entirely impossible. Here are some great tips on how to plan her low-key bachelorette party and still have a lot of fun.
Make Sure Her Voice Is Heard
This must be on top of your list. Before you even start planning anything else, make sure she has a say in it. If you don’t respect her wishes, there is no way that she would feel comfortable, let alone have a great night. If she says ‘no, absolutely no strippers’, you’re not having strippers and that’s it.
No Pen*s-Shaped Items
Of course, bachelorette parties have pen*s-shaped items, but can you imagine how your dear introvert friend would feel if you gave her a peen-shaped cookie? Humiliated and embarrassed. That’s not what you want to achieve. Try classy food for a change and trust me, you’ll all enjoy it.
Better Throw the Party at Home or at a Hotel
No outdoor partying, especially no bars or discos. Your friend will probably like to stay indoors, preferably in a hotel with a nice spa for you to enjoy in the morning. Or, you can host the party at your house. It is not that difficult since it would be just like every other pyjama party. Gather all your girls, buy some booze, order some nice food and snacks and make a cool music playlist. That’s all you need.
Maintain an Entertaining Environment, Though
You have to be equipped with ideas that would seem appropriate to her, but you can go out of line here and prepare something daring yet not as impossible for her to like. Since your party will probably be at home or in a hotel room, grab a few laptops and join a casino online. If she doesn’t want to be seen gambling outside, why not take the fun at home? You can create a brick-and-mortar casino atmosphere at home: take some drinks, gather around the laptops and cheer for the girl who’s currently playing.
Replace the Dreaded Stripper with Something of Her Own Interest
Is Game of Thrones her favourite show? Well, you’ve hit the jackpot. Create a Game of Thrones quote game. She will rock the game and she will feel special playing it. Make sure you include Jon Snow and Jamie Lannister photos, to spice things up, if you know what I mean. And, make a dragonish, fire-spitting cocktail named after her to make things more personal.
Pay Attention and Know When It’s Enough
The night must end eventually, so you need to be attentive and know when it’s time to go to bed. Don’t make her stay just because the others are still having fun. After all, you’ve organized the party for her, and that’s all that matters.